One thing that you’ll notice about most non-achievers is that they are consumers. They work at a nine-to-five job, five days per week for years. They money they earn is spent. In early years, it goes on music, games, entertainment, socialising and technology. Later, it is spent on cars, houses, holidays, more technology, marriages and children. People take everything they earn and spend it on something.
One thing you’ll notice about most high-achievers is that they are producers. They are always creating something new. They are the ones who create the objects that the consumers devour. Don’t get me wrong, there are people who are non-achievers who also produce. Just think of the bedroom musician who writes for a hobby, or the backyard potter who makes ceramics for fun and gives them to friends.
High-achievers however, will create something of value to a consumer and find a way to deliver that object to them. They either create something completely new or modify something existing to make it better. Then they offer it to market for the consumers to buy.
Break the Habit
It can be difficult to become a producer if you have spent your whole life as a consumer. But, if you want to try, put your mind to it for thirty days, and you will find that it becomes a habit. The same applies to bad habits. Abstain for thirty days and you will break the habit.
An analogy can be made to pickup. That is, acting as opposed to reacting. In actual fact, by acting, we are producing, as you will see.
Action is Essential in Game
If we see a girl we like, and we know a little game, the first thing we will do is go and talk to her. We take action, because by doing so, we have a chance to achieve what we want. Whilst pushing forward the interaction through its various stages, we are putting the seduction framework into action.
For example, when we’ve portrayed our personality to the girl and she is relaxed and enjoying the interaction, we will eventually close her in some way. We as men, have to take action to make sure that happens. The girl will not do it. Do you think she’ll number close you, kiss you, take you home and lay you? No. You take action. She reacts to the action you take.
If you want to be good at game, you need to be aware of what you’re doing throughout an interaction with a girl. You need to be asking yourself:
“Am I taking action, or am I reacting?”
If you’re reacting, you’ll get nowhere. As a leader, you need to be taking action, forcing the issue, moving forward. If however, you don’t want abundance with women, you should remain reactive. Wait until someone else makes a move.
Move Forward in Your Life
Maybe you can see why learning game improves your life as a whole. By learning to be a man of action, you are also learning the skill at the root of achievement in life. Action is a form of creation. You are making a connection with a girl that did not exist before. Simply by taking action. Sure, on many occasions, the interaction will lead to nothing, but sometimes your effort will result in a prize.
Maybe, instead of surfing the internet, reading blogs, you could write a blog. Maybe instead of checking out eBay or Amazon for cool gadgets to buy, you could make your own and sell it on those same websites. One is action, one is reaction. One is production, the other is consumption.
One final analogy. Cattle consume. They eat all day long and wander around in their field oblivious to the fact that they’re just being fattened up for slaughter. The farmer feeds the cattle and one day reaps the reward of his work. Would you rather be the cattle or the farmer?