One thing I have noticed is that when you have a problem that needs solving, often an answer will come from seemingly nowhere and assuming your senses are open you can accept and benefit from it. This happens all the time to me and I think it is a direct consequence of deliberately putting myself in a state of openness. Be open to new ideas and experiences.
As you may know if you read my last post, I’m writing a book and that has taken up a lot the spare time that I was using for blog posts. I actually have ideas for three upcoming posts but no time to write them. A large chunk of additional time is being taken up applying for new jobs, speaking to agencies who are offering me work and going for interviews.
So it was with delight that I got an email from Sebastian of www.globalseducer.com, who was offering to write a guest post for me. I’m a little sceptical when I get emails like this, but Sebastian suggested five different topics for the post, so he obviously has a lot to say. I inquired about one topic and he replied with a finished article!
One thing that I’m working on at the moment is increasing my income through getting a better paying job which in turn will give me extra funds to finance my side-businesses, which in turn will provide a passive income stream. Once this grows to a reasonable monthly sum, I intend to quit my main job and go travelling around the world, seducing the hottest women I can find.
Sebastian seems to have already reached this goal, so he is the ideal person to talk about the effect that travelling the world has on a would-be womaniser. I hope you enjoy the article.
How International Dating Gives You Balls of Steel
I can confidently say that one of the main reasons why I got successful with women is because I decided to travel all around the world in search of the most beautiful girls that this wonderful planet has to offer.
The decision to leave my tiny home town behind me and to embark on a journey that led me through Eastern Europe, Asia and South America was the best decision I ever made. When it comes to your personal development the benefits of dating women from all over the world are nearly limitless.
Malicious tongues would probably say that the only reason why I travelled all around the world in search of romantic and sexual adventures was because I couldn’t get laid back home. Well, this is absolutely not true.
Despite the fact that German women are often labelled as unapproachable, I was pretty successful in my home country. I had plenty of opportunities to settle down with a nice girlfriend, but somehow I wanted more.
I already got over a lot of my fears, but I knew that I still had a long way to go if I wanted to become really good at this. Fortunately, my one year of travel allowed me to become better with women and more comfortable in my own skin than I would have ever thought. Let’s have a look at the reasons why international dating gives you balls of steel.
You Have to Overcome Your Fear of Women
I don’t know from which country you are but in case you are from any country in the Western hemisphere you don’t even know what it means to be surrounded by breathtakingly beautiful women.
I learned how to seduce women in a country that is known for its cold and unattractive girls and until I travelled to Poland I really thought that I had overcome all my fears of women. I was really convinced that I didn’t have any approach anxiety anymore. I was wrong.
The moment I stepped out of the airport in Warsaw my heart started to beat like never before. There were beautiful blond women everywhere. I couldn’t believe my eyes and when I travelled to Belgrade and to Russia the women became more and more beautiful. As a result of that my approach anxiety got worse and worse.
I still remember how I wasn’t able to say a correct sentence when I stood in front of this incredibly gorgeous model in Russia. You might think that you are completely fearless and that you can approach every girl in the world but the only way to find that out is by testing if you can also approach a Russian model or a Colombian salsa instructor.
You Leave Years of Social Conditioning Behind
We are constantly conditioned by society and most of the time you probably don’t even realize it. You are conditioned to buy certain things, to live your life a certain way and you are also conditioned to belief certain things about the world.
In case you have never travelled to another country chances are high that you still believe that every Thai girl is a prostitute and that all Russian women are gold diggers. Travelling the world in search of beautiful women allows you to leave exactly those poisoned beliefs behind you.
Once you have seen how the world really is and how amazing women are, who you wrongfully judged before, the less fearful you will be. You will forget about the fears that our society, the media and sometimes even your parents gave you and you will start to become fearless and excited to experience new adventures.
You Step Out of Your Comfort Zone
Did you know that international dating is the best medicine when you want to become more confident by stepping out of your comfort zone? Travelling without the goal to seduce beautiful women is already a threat for your comfort zone.
I know so many people who are talking about how they want to travel the world one day. It’s just too bad that this day will most likely never come. So many people decide to stay in the comfort of their home instead of travelling to foreign countries.
What do you do? You take your courage in both hands, travel the world and you even end up dating amazing women. You are expanding your comfort zone way more than anyone else who plans to embark on a trip around the world.
You not only have to communicate with people whose language you don’t speak, you want to seduce them. You not only ask strangers for directions, you ask them to go on a date with you. Your comfort zone will get wider than the belly circumference of Kevin James.
By stepping out of your comfort zone you overcome your fears and at the same time you become the kind of guy that women truly want. I have never met a woman who said that an adventurous traveller is unattractive.
You Fail Along the Way
I already told you that some people would say that the only reason why guys go abroad is because they can’t get laid at home. Well, what if I tell you that this is not only complete nonsense, but that it can also be more challenging to date overseas than at home?
You don’t know the local language and most of the girls you’ll meet speak very poor English. Unless you study the local dating culture before you go there you will sometimes behave in a way that isn’t in alignment with the local dating customs.
When you embark on this journey it is inevitable that you won’t fail along the way. Sooner or later you will meet a woman who shows you the limits of your seduction skills. And do you know what? That’s great!
Those are the experiences that you learn the most of. Every failure will make you stronger better. Dating beautiful women in a country you have never been to allow you to learn more about yourself and about the art of seduction than you ever thought would be possible.